Follow Through

We cannot fully move on from a situation until we've integrated all the goodness that came because of it. Each situation has something valuable to offer. We won't be able to receive it if we are holding on to how things didn't go according to our liking. If we see the outcome only as a …

Meeting others where they are

Meeting others where they are, not wanting them to change their nature - that's Love. This shouldn't be mistaken for not having self-respect or not establishing healthy boundaries. It only means that we accept others (including non-human beings) for where they currently are and not wishing they're somewhere/someone else. This means that we see the …

Be Unconditional

There will always be those who would measure you up and put you in a box they've created. There will be times when you'll be weighed like dead meat and nobody will give a fuck about how you feel. You will be Ignored. Unseen. Forgotten. You won't always get a prize for being treated like …

The thing that we are Withholding from others is the very thing that we need

I. Seeing Ourselves in Others Each of us has been walking through life carrying some open wounds, more often than not we are not aware of it. Usually we are even more perceptive of each other's bleeding than our own. This is how mirroring helps us to be more aware of ourselves. This is why …

Jesus reincarnated in my life – to literally Sleep in my bedroom

​I've been berating myself lately for taking the retreat I knew I needed, too. I've been feeling anxious; going back and forth in my mind, obsessing on finding new resolutions, new action points that could push me forward in my path. I couldn't keep myself from asking the Universe, "What's next? What should I be …

How to handle Stress? Hold a space for Grace and unconditional Love

We get cranky when we're stressed out. We become more needy. We have less patience. We tend to have a distorted view towards the people around us. We're more likely to think they're insensitive, uncaring - selfish.  This can crystallize into tiny resentments that have a chance of clumping together as time passes by. This …

Unicorn thoughts

Maybe I'm just tracing the lines of my comfort zone. Going in circles. I couldn't seem to find my way out. So all I do is go in circles. Trapped in my own carousel. It's already a miracle, though to have finally realized that I am moving but not going anywhere, that I am in …